Are there any good men left to date after 50?
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As you already know, attracting Mr. Right into your life in your 50’s, 60’s or 70’s can be a bit challenging.
Unfortunately growing up with fairy tales as children and romantic movies as an adult, you might be experiencing an unrealistic picture of who men are and how they operate in the dating world.
Just think Hallmark Movies.
Your heart just pitter-patters when the couple falls in love, right?
I know when I first started dating; I was definitely looking for Prince Charming to just show up on my doorstep.
In my dreams, he’d sweep me off my feet and take care of me forever financially and emotionally.
Oh, and the other part of that dream was we would never argue.
Funny dream and totally unrealistic for finding and keeping love in your life!
And, I was forgetting something really important in this equation, maybe you are too?
I wasn’t looking at what I was going to contribute to the relationship, only what he was going to offer me.
For some crazy reason, I figured my presence would be enough.
Today, this scenario makes me laugh but at the time, I really believed the PERFECT MAN would just walk into my life and I’d know him the second we met.
Sounding familiar?
I’ve learned a lot since then, and to attract Mr. Right, I realized I had to stop letting men choose me.
My power came from having a clear vision of who Mr. Right was beyond a couple of qualities I thought were important at the time.
I had to dig deep on this and what happened is I ended up figuring out a formula called a Quality Man Template that showed me exactly who the right man was for me.
A Quality Man Template is a comprehensive tool that includes looking at the patterns of men you’re most often attracted to, your deal-breakers, the qualities you want in a man, the values that are important to you, and how you wanted to feel around him.
This dating tool does two things for you.
It sends a message to the Universe that this is who you are looking for.
And it keeps you from getting involved with the wrong men over and over again.
Now I have a couple of questions for you to think about.
- What makes your guy the right man for you?
- Is it his values?
- The way he looks?
- The way you feel when you’re around him?
- Is it a man who can afford fine dining or expensive vacations?
- Or is it what he does in life?
- Does he have any of your deal breakers? (A woman settles when she doesn’t honor her deal breakers thinking a man will change. He doesn’t!)
- Is he anything like the last man you dated?
Part of the reason you might be failing at finding Mr. Right is most of us get into a pattern of attracting the same man over and over again without even realizing it.
At first, he seems so amazing until the same issues you had in your last couple of relationships come back again to haunt you.
It wasn’t until I created a Pattern Chart as part of my Quality Man Template that I was able to clearly see how and why I was doing this.
Take a few minutes to think about whether you’ve been dating the same wrong men over and over again.
It’s really important because the type of men you’re most attracted to are probably the worst men for you.
Why? Because if your type worked, you’d be with your type right now.
If you can expand beyond your usual type you’ll have far more quality men to choose from.
There is a guy out there who is right for you.
You just want a clear vision of who the right man is for you so you can see him.
Now to inspire you that you can find love after 50!
I’d Have Passed My Guy Up
Thank God, I became a member of Lisa’s Love After 50 Coaching Group because I needed help. Using what Lisa taught me about finding love at this time in my life, I ended up meeting my guy. In the past, I would have passed him up if I hadn’t had my Quality Man Template. I also learned so much about men and understanding who they are that has helped me be in a successful relationship. Lisa, you are just a wonderful coach. You unlocked the key for me about men that got me the amazing man I am now sharing my life with. Maryanne, Connecticut
Would you love having a good man in your life like Maryanne now has?
Imagine . . . no more searching for Mr. Right.
No more wondering where can I find him?
And waking up every morning with that love and sweetness in your life.
If this sounds amazing, just click here and let’s talk and see how we can make this happen for you.
Believing in you!
Big hugs ~
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